Cum - In mouth
Ejaculation inside the mouth. Short Explanation: In this activity, "Receiving" means you accept ejaculation in your mouth, while "Giving" indicates you perform the act. Ensure your role (Dominant or Submissive) is clearly defined.
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Receiving ejaculation in the mouth represents intimate acceptance during oral sex. This practice ranges from expected conclusion to special occasion to avoided entirely, depending on individual preferences and relationship dynamics.
Variations and Preferences
Options include swallowing, holding, spitting, or letting it drip out. Some prefer warning before ejaculation; others want no warning. Power dynamics may dictate required reception or make it reward/privilege. Personal comfort ranges widely—what's enthusiastically embraced by one person may be hard limit for another.
Physical Considerations
Semen can trigger gag reflex in some people. Position and technique affect this—receiving at back of throat versus front of mouth creates different experiences. Temperature and texture surprise some; knowing what to expect helps. Taste varies by diet and individual chemistry.
Safety Aspects
STIs can transmit through oral mucosa, especially with sores or cuts present. Testing provides peace of mind. Pre-cum can also carry infections. Risk is lower than for penetrative sex but not zero. Make informed decisions about protection based on testing status and relationship context.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if I don't like swallowing?
This is entirely valid. Alternatives include spitting discreetly, receiving elsewhere, or using condoms for oral. No one should feel obligated to swallow—it's preference, not requirement.
How do I communicate preferences about this?
Discuss outside sexual contexts. "I prefer/don't prefer..." or "I'd like warning when..." provides clear information. Revisit as preferences potentially change.
Is swallowing expected in most relationships?
Expectations vary wildly by individual and culture. No universal standard exists. What matters is what works for the specific partners involved.
Can this be part of power exchange?
Absolutely. Requiring swallowing, forbidding it, or controlling reception method all work as power exchange elements. Frame according to your dynamic's needs.
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