Cupping / Suction
Using suction cups or devices to create suction on the skin, increasing blood flow or tightness. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you feel the suction; "Giving" means you apply the cups.
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Cupping uses vacuum pressure to draw tissue into cups, creating distinctive sensations and temporary marks. This practice bridges traditional bodywork and BDSM, offering unique sensations, striking visual effects, and interesting pain profiles different from impact play.
How Cupping Works
Vacuum draws blood to the surface and stretches tissue. Methods include traditional fire cupping (flame creates vacuum), hand-pump cups, and silicone squeeze cups. Sensation intensifies over time as suction continues. Removal creates sudden sensation change. Marks (circular bruises) are expected and typically last several days.
Sensation and Experience
Cupping produces deep, pulling sensation unlike impact's surface sting. Some find it pleasant, others intensely painful. The building intensity as cups sit creates anticipation. Strategic placement—nipples, genitals, back, thighs—targets different experiences. Multiple cups create visual patterns.
Safety Considerations
Avoid cupping over spine, kidneys, heart, or varicose veins. Don't cup skin that's broken, irritated, or sunburned. Limit duration—tissue damage occurs with excessive time or pressure. Fire cupping requires training to avoid burns. Start with gentle suction and short duration.
Frequently Asked Questions
Are cupping marks dangerous?
No—they're essentially controlled bruising. The circular marks result from blood drawn to surface. They fade naturally in days to a week. Some consider them desirable marking.
What's the difference between cupping types?
Fire cupping is traditional and requires skill. Pump cups allow pressure control. Silicone cups are gentlest and easiest for beginners. Each creates slightly different experiences.
Can cupping be used on genitals?
Yes—specific cups exist for nipples, clitoris, and penis. Start very gently; genital tissue is sensitive. This creates engorgement effects some find pleasurable.
How long should cups stay on?
Start with 5-10 minutes. Experienced practitioners may go longer. Watch for excessive discoloration or pain signals indicating too long. Duration affects mark intensity.
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