Sado-Masochism
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Exploring Sado-Masochism - BDSM practices and activities
Activities in this Category
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Pinching
Pinching a partners skin for sensation or control. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are pinched; "Giving" means you pinch your partner.
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Scratching
Using nails or implements to scratch a partners skin, creating sensation or marks. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are scratched; "Giving" means you scratch your partner.
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Sexual Asphyxiation
Restricting airflow during sexual activity to enhance sensations, with extreme caution. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you experience controlled asphyxiation; "Giving" means you manage the airflow restriction.
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Smothering
Covering a partners mouth and nose to restrict airflow, requiring caution. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are smothered; "Giving" means you apply the smothering.
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Tickling
Using light touches or feathers to stimulate nerve endings, causing laughter or arousal. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are tickled; "Giving" means you tickle your partner.
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Trampling
Being trampled or walked on by a partner, with clear consent and safety measures. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are trampled; "Giving" means you walk on your partner.
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Verbal Abuse
Using harsh language or insults to degrade or humiliate a partner. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are verbally abused; "Giving" means you deliver the abuse.
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Water Torture
Using water in various forms (dripping, forced submersion, waterboarding) for sensation play. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you endure water torture; "Giving" means you administer the water play.
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Wrestling
Engaging in physical wrestling or grappling with a partner, often involving dominance and submission. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you participate as the grappler; "Giving" means you engage dominantly in the wrestling.
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Abrasion
Using rough materials or implements to create friction on the skin, causing a burning or stinging sensation. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you feel the abrasive sensation; "Giving" means you apply the abrasion.
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Bastinado (feet torture)
Striking the soles of the feet with a cane or other implement. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your feet are struck; "Giving" means you administer the strikes.
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Biting
Using teeth to create sensation or leave marks on a partners body. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are bitten; "Giving" means you bite your partner.
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Branding
Using a heated instrument to create a permanent mark on the skin. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are branded; "Giving" means you perform the branding.
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Breast torture w/pins-clips, etc.
Using pins, clips, or other implements to create sensation or pain on the breasts. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your breasts are tortured; "Giving" means you apply the pins/clips.
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Breath Play
Controlling a partners breathing through means such as gagging, choking, or forced hyperventilation. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your breathing is controlled; "Giving" means you manage the breath control.
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Bruising
Intentionally creating bruises on a partners body as a mark of ownership or to commemorate a scene. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you develop bruises; "Giving" means you cause the bruising.
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Choking
Applying pressure to the neck to restrict airflow, requiring extreme caution and consent. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are choked; "Giving" means you apply choking pressure.
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Choking – Arterial
Applying pressure to the carotid arteries to restrict blood flow to the brain, extremely dangerous and only for experienced individuals. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you experience arterial choking; "Giving" means you administer it with extreme caution.
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Choking – Windpipe
Applying pressure to the windpipe to restrict airflow, requiring extreme caution and consent. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your windpipe is restricted; "Giving" means you control the choking.
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Cupping / Suction
Using suction cups or devices to create suction on the skin, increasing blood flow or tightness. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you feel the suction; "Giving" means you apply the cups.
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Cutting
Using a knife or sharp object to create cuts on the skin, requiring extreme caution and consent. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you experience controlled cutting; "Giving" means you perform the cuts safely.
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Dilation – Anal
Using dilators to stretch or expand the anus. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your anus is dilated; "Giving" means you apply the dilators.
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Dilation – Vaginal
Using dilators to stretch or expand the vagina. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your vagina is dilated; "Giving" means you administer the dilators.
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Electric Play
Using electrical stimulation for sensation play, such as with a violet wand or TENS unit. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you experience electrical stimulation; "Giving" means you administer the electrical play.
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Enemas
Administering enemas for cleansing or as sensation play or punishment. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you receive an enema; "Giving" means you perform the enema.
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Fire Play
Using fire or heat for sensation play, requiring extreme caution and consent. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you experience fire play; "Giving" means you administer the heat with care.
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Gagging
Using a gag to restrict speech or control the mouth. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are gagged; "Giving" means you apply the gag.
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Gagging (fingers or similar means)
Using fingers or objects to gag a partner, restricting their speech. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are gagged with fingers; "Giving" means you use objects to gag your partner.
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Gagging During Oral
Gagging a partner during oral sex for sensation or control. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are gagged during oral sex; "Giving" means you gag your partner during oral activities.
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Genital Torture
Applying various forms of stimulation or pain to the genitals (pinching, twisting, clamping). Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your genitals are tortured; "Giving" means you administer the genital stimulation.
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Hair Pulling
Pulling a partners hair for sensation or control. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you have your hair pulled; "Giving" means you pull your partners hair.
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Hot Wax Play
Using hot wax for sensation play, such as dripping wax on the skin or for hair removal. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you have wax dripped on you; "Giving" means you apply the hot wax.
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Ice / Cold Play
Using ice or cold temperatures for sensation play, such as applying ice cubes or cold water. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you experience cold sensations; "Giving" means you administer the cold play.
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Knife Play (non-cutting)
Running a knife along the skin without breaking it, for psychological or sensory effects. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you feel the knife glide over your skin; "Giving" means you perform the non-cutting play.
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Nipple Torture
Applying stimulation or pain to the nipples (pinching, twisting, clamping). Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your nipples are tortured; "Giving" means you administer nipple torture.
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Piercing
Piercing the skin with needles or sharp objects, temporarily or permanently. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are pierced; "Giving" means you perform the piercing.
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Punching / Beating
Striking a partners body with fists or implements, with clear consent. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are punched or beaten; "Giving" means you deliver the strikes.
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Pussy/cunt slapping / whipping
Slapping or whipping the vulva, with clear consent and safety measures. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means your vulva is slapped or whipped; "Giving" means you administer the impact.