Anal Plugs - Public (Under Clothes)
Discreetly wearing an anal plug in public settings for arousal, submission, or sensation play. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you wear the plug in public; "Giving" means you direct or enforce its public use.
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Start Your ChecklistWearing an anal plug discreetly in public—concealed beneath clothing during everyday activities—adds an exciting dimension to intimate relationships. This practice combines physical sensation with psychological elements: the secret knowledge, the constant reminder of intimacy, and for many couples, the power dynamic of one partner directing the other to wear a plug throughout the day.
Public plug wear requires more consideration than bedroom use. The plug must be comfortable for extended periods, secure enough not to shift or fall out, and completely undetectable to others. For couples exploring D/s dynamics, it can serve as a constant, private symbol of their connection—an intimate secret shared in plain sight.
This guide covers practical considerations for comfortable, safe public plug wear, from choosing appropriate plugs to managing the physical and psychological aspects of this practice.
Choosing a Plug for Public Wear
Essential Characteristics
Comfortable base design: The base matters more than anything else for extended wear. T-bar or narrow rectangular bases sit between the cheeks more comfortably than round bases. The base should be thin enough not to create visible lines through clothing but substantial enough to prevent the plug from migrating inward.
Appropriate size: For public wear, smaller is usually better. A plug that feels pleasantly filling during a bedroom session may become uncomfortable after hours of walking, sitting, and moving. Choose a size you can forget about for periods of time.
Smooth, seamless construction: Any rough spots, seams, or texture that might feel fine during brief use can cause irritation during extended wear. Inspect plugs carefully for potential problem areas.
Material Considerations
Silicone: Most popular for extended wear—flexible, body-safe, and comfortable. Matte-finish silicone may cause more friction than polished surfaces.
Stainless steel: Smooth and seamless, but heavier. The weight can be felt more during movement and may cause the plug to shift more than lightweight silicone.
Glass: Smooth but rigid. Can be comfortable for extended wear if sized appropriately, but offers no flexibility if you're moving actively.
Specific Recommendations
Look for plugs specifically marketed for extended or public wear—these typically feature comfortable bases designed for sitting. Training plugs and princess plugs often work well. Avoid very short plugs that might shift too much, or very long plugs that may press uncomfortably when sitting.
Safety for Extended Public Wear
Important Considerations
- Build up duration gradually. Don't start with an 8-hour workday. Begin with 1-2 hour outings and increase incrementally.
- Use adequate lubrication. Silicone-based lubricant lasts longest for extended wear. Water-based may require reapplication during long sessions.
- Listen to body signals. Discomfort beyond initial awareness, chafing, or any pain signals the need to remove the plug.
- Plan for bathroom breaks. Remove the plug if needed—forcing retention when your body needs to eliminate is uncomfortable and potentially harmful.
- Have a plan for removal. Know where private bathrooms are located in case you need to remove the plug unexpectedly.
Hygiene During Extended Wear
- Start clean. Begin with a clean plug and clean body.
- Carry supplies. Lubricant and wipes in your bag allow for adjustments as needed.
- Don't push too long. Wearing any internal device for very extended periods can irritate tissue. Set reasonable limits.
The Psychology of Public Wear
The Secret Connection
For many couples, public plug wear creates an intimate secret—a private connection that exists amid ordinary activities. At dinner with friends, in a meeting, or shopping, the wearing partner carries a physical reminder of their intimate relationship. This can feel deeply connecting, erotic, and playfully mischievous.
Power Dynamics
In D/s relationships, directing a partner to wear a plug publicly extends power exchange beyond private spaces. The dominant partner gives an instruction that the submissive follows throughout the day. This creates ongoing dynamic presence—the submissive is reminded of their role with every shift of the plug, and the dominant knows their influence extends wherever their partner goes.
This can be enhanced with check-ins (texting to confirm the plug is still worn), restrictions on when it can be removed, or requirements to report sensations throughout the day.
Managing Distraction
New practitioners may find public plug wear distracting—constant awareness of the plug can make it difficult to focus on other activities. This typically decreases with experience; what initially dominates attention becomes pleasant background sensation over time.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can others tell I'm wearing a plug?
With a properly fitted plug and appropriate clothing, others cannot tell. Choose plugs with flat, narrow bases that don't create visible lines. Avoid very tight clothing that might reveal outlines. Any slight change in how you sit or walk is noticeable only to you—others have no reason to suspect anything unusual. Paranoia about being "caught" is common initially but fades with experience.
What if the plug falls out?
A properly sized and designed plug should not fall out during normal activity. If you're concerned, wearing snug underwear provides an extra layer of security. That said, vigorous activity or a plug that's slightly too small might shift or potentially come loose. If this happens, excuse yourself to a bathroom to reinsert or remove entirely. This is why practicing at home before public wear is valuable.
How do I handle bathroom visits?
For urination, small plugs typically can remain in place. For bowel movements, remove the plug first—trying to work around it is uncomfortable and unsanitary. Clean and reinsert after if you want to continue wearing. Carry a small bag with wipes, lubricant, and potentially a bag for the plug if you're removing it for extended periods.
Is this safe to do regularly?
With appropriate plugs, adequate lubrication, and sensible duration limits, occasional public plug wear is safe for healthy adults. However, wearing plugs constantly without breaks can irritate tissue and isn't recommended. Treat public wear as an occasional practice rather than a daily routine. Allow rest days between extended wear sessions, and always prioritize comfort over duration goals.
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