Clothing Chosen
Choosing what a partner wears, often to enforce modesty, express a specific style, or create a sense of control. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you wear the chosen clothing; "Giving" means you select it for your partner.
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When submissives have their clothing chosen by their Dominant, everyday dressing becomes an act of surrender. This practice extends power exchange beyond scenes into mundane moments, creating constant connection through controlled presentation.
Building Clothing Protocols
Effective clothing protocols consider lifestyle, budget, and boundaries. Define scope—does control extend to all clothing or specific categories? Establish processes: photo approvals, laid-out outfits, or shopping together. Create systems that work long-term rather than burdensome routines that fade. Sustainable protocols integrate naturally into daily life.
Types of Clothing Control
Common approaches include: Dominant selects from submissive's existing wardrobe; Dominant purchases specific items; submissive presents options for approval; complete wardrobe replacement over time. Some focus on intimate wear others see, some emphasize visible public presentation. Match approach to what creates meaningful exchange for your relationship.
Symbolic and Practical Elements
Clothing control carries both practical and symbolic weight. Practically, it simplifies decision-making for submissives who find morning choices stressful. Symbolically, it demonstrates trust, ownership, and care. Many incorporate specific items as indicators—a particular collar, bracelet, or style that signals submission to those who understand.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if the Dominant has poor fashion sense?
Discuss aesthetic preferences during negotiation. Some submissives provide style guides or lookbooks. The Dominant can improve over time while the submissive accepts imperfect choices as part of surrender.
How do we handle special occasions?
Plan ahead for events requiring specific attire. Some Dominants enjoy choosing formal wear; others give more latitude. Discuss in advance rather than creating awkward situations.
Should this affect shopping autonomy?
Negotiate this explicitly. Some dynamics include shopping approval, others allow free purchasing with wearing control. Budget considerations may also factor in.
What about comfort and practicality?
Good Dominants consider weather, activities, and comfort. Discuss non-negotiable comfort needs (proper footwear, temperature-appropriate layers) when establishing protocols.
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