Sexual Practices

Cumming on Partner

Ejaculating on a partner’s body as a form of sexual expression. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you have ejaculation applied to you; "Giving" means you ejaculate on your partner.

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External Ejaculation on Partner

Ejaculating onto a partner's body combines visual, physical, and psychological elements. This practice allows marking, display, and erotic conclusion without internal ejaculation concerns. Target areas, presentation, and cleanup all carry significance in various dynamics.

Common Target Areas

Popular locations include face (facials), chest, stomach, back, and buttocks. Each carries different connotations—facials often emphasize dominance or degradation, chest feels intimate, back allows prone positioning. Partner preferences for receiving and giver preferences for viewing both matter in choosing targets.

Psychological Elements

External ejaculation serves marking and ownership functions for some. The visual of cum on skin creates powerful imagery. Requiring partners to remain still while "receiving" emphasizes submission. Cleanup protocols—self-cleaning, partner cleaning, wearing cum for a period—extend the dynamic beyond the moment.

Practical Considerations

Aim takes practice. Communicate about approaching orgasm to allow positioning. Protect eyes and other sensitive areas—semen in eyes causes irritation but not injury. Consider what's under the partner (bed sheets, towels) for easier cleanup. Keep tissues or wipes accessible.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is ejaculating on face degrading?

Context determines meaning. Some find facials loving and intimate; others find them degrading (in desired or undesired ways). Discuss what it means to both partners specifically.

What if semen gets in eyes?

Flush with water. Mild irritation is common but temporary. No lasting damage results. Consider having the receiver close eyes or use positioning that protects them.

How do we handle dislike of specific locations?

Respect stated preferences. Someone might enjoy chest but not face, or body but not face. Negotiate which areas work for both partners.

What about cleanup?

Fresh semen cleans easily with tissues and water. Dried semen requires more scrubbing. Some dynamics make cleanup part of play; others handle it quickly and practically.

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