Bodily Fluids and Functions

Cum - On body

Ejaculating onto a partner’s body. Short Explanation: For this activity, choosing "Receiving" indicates you want to have ejaculation applied to your body, whereas "Giving" means you will be the one ejaculating on your partner. Select your role to reflect your dynamic.

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Body Ejaculation in BDSM

Ejaculating on a partner's body offers visual satisfaction, marking elements, and safer-sex alternative to internal ejaculation. This versatile practice adapts to various dynamics while allowing partners to enjoy fluid-based intimacy with reduced STI and pregnancy concerns.

Dynamics and Meaning

Body ejaculation carries different weight depending on framing. It can represent ownership through marking, service completion, reward for pleasing behavior, or degradation if framed negatively. The same physical act means different things in different dynamics. Discuss what it signifies for your relationship.

Location Preferences

Beyond face (addressed separately), common areas include: breasts/chest (visual appeal, intimacy), stomach (classic position), back and buttocks (prone positioning), thighs, and feet (for specific fetishes). Each location offers different visual angles, accessibility, and psychological associations.

Incorporating into Scenes

Body ejaculation can conclude scenes dramatically. Consider positioning—kneeling receiver emphasizes submission, lying receiver allows broader targeting. Some dynamics require specific positions or "presenting" for cum. Photography of results (with consent) extends the moment for some couples.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is body ejaculation safer than internal?

For pregnancy, completely. For STIs, somewhat—unbroken skin doesn't transmit most infections, but any cuts, mucous membranes, or breaks in skin can. Risk exists but is lower than internal ejaculation.

What if I want this but my partner finds it messy or unpleasant?

Explore what specifically bothers them. Sometimes specific locations work better. Discuss compromises—maybe occasional rather than regular, or specific circumstances. Respect genuine discomfort.

How does this work with multiple orgasms or partners?

Group scenarios might involve multiple ejaculations on one person. Solo partners with multiple orgasms might repeat. Establish whether cleanup happens between or accumulation is desired.

Any skin considerations?

Semen is generally skin-safe but can cause irritation for some. Wash off fairly promptly if skin sensitivity exists. No lasting effects from normal contact.

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