Deepthroating
Taking the entire penis into the mouth and throat during oral sex. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you perform deepthroating; "Giving" means you are deepthroated.
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Deepthroating involves taking a penis or dildo past the back of the mouth into the throat. This advanced oral skill requires training to suppress gag reflex, proper positioning, and communication. Many find it intensely intimate; others incorporate dominance/submission elements.
Developing the Skill
Gag reflex suppression takes practice. Start with smaller objects, work gradually, and practice regularly. Positions matter—angles that straighten the throat allow deeper penetration. Breathing techniques and relaxation help. Some people suppress gag reflex more easily than others; not everyone can deepthroat regardless of practice.
Safety Considerations
Throat tissue is delicate. Aggressive thrusting can cause injury, bruising, or long-lasting soreness. Communication about pace and depth is essential. The receiving partner needs ability to signal discomfort or need for air. Build trust before any face-fucking dynamics. Stop immediately if severe discomfort or breathing difficulty occurs.
Power Exchange Elements
Deepthroating carries inherent vulnerability—the receiving partner controls the penetrating partner's airway. This power imbalance attracts some dynamics. Face-fucking takes control from the receiver, creating submission through physical vulnerability. Trust must be absolute for these intense exchanges.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I suppress my gag reflex?
Gradual exposure works for most. Practice with toothbrush, then fingers, then toys of increasing size. Humming, breathing through nose, and relaxing help. Some use numbing sprays, though these mask important sensation signals.
Is gagging during deepthroating normal?
Yes—even experienced practitioners sometimes gag. It's a natural reflex. Pulling back when gagging happens prevents vomiting and allows recovery. Don't push through severe gagging.
What positions work best?
Lying on back with head tilted off bed edge straightens throat. Kneeling with upward angle works for some. Side positions allow escape routes. Experiment to find what works for specific anatomy.
Can deepthroating cause damage?
Throat injuries are possible with aggressive or inexperienced play. Soreness is common; actual damage is rarer but can include bruising, lasting pain, or in extreme cases, perforation. Proceed carefully.
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