Sex Machines – Handheld

How Handheld Sex Machines Work

Handheld sex machines use electric motors to create penetrating or stroking motions. The operator holds and directs the machine while adjusting speed, depth, and angle in real-time based on the receiver's responses.

Techniques and Variations

Thrusting machines use a reciprocating mechanism to move attachments in and out, simulating penetrative motion. Speed typically ranges from slow teasing to rapid thrusting. Variable depth settings allow customization of penetration intensity.

Stroking machines create up-and-down motion, often used for external stimulation or with specialized attachments for penis stimulation. Some combine thrusting and vibrating functions.

Wand-style machines with penetrating attachments convert vibration into thrust through specialized heads. These often provide a middle ground between traditional vibrators and dedicated thrusting machines.

Usage techniques include controlling depth and angle to find optimal positions, varying speed patterns to build intensity, combining machine stimulation with oral or manual attention, and using the machine as part of power exchange or teasing scenarios.

Equipment and Tools

Essential components include the machine itself, appropriate attachments for desired activities, compatible lubricant (silicone-safe for silicone attachments), and cleaning supplies. Rechargeable machines offer cord-free operation; corded models often provide more consistent power.

Attachment variety matters—different sizes, textures, and shapes serve different preferences and anatomies. Quality silicone attachments are body-safe and durable. Many machines accept universal Vac-U-Lock or comparable attachment systems.

Beginner's Guide

Starting with handheld sex machines involves selecting appropriate equipment and developing comfortable use practices.

Research before purchasing. Consider size (many machines are substantial), power source (corded vs. rechargeable), noise level, and available attachments. Entry-level machines offer good value for exploration; premium models provide more power and features.

Start solo if possible. Learning how the machine feels and responds without the additional complexity of partner interaction helps develop control and understanding.

Begin with lower speeds and standard-sized attachments. Build up to more intensity as you understand your (or your partner's) responses. Many people find that maximum settings are more than necessary.

Invest in quality lubricant and use it generously. Machine-driven motion requires more lubrication than manual activity. Water-based lubricants work with all attachment materials; silicone-based lubricants shouldn't be used with silicone attachments.

Clean equipment thoroughly after each use according to manufacturer guidelines. Proper maintenance extends equipment life and prevents hygiene issues.

Discussing with Your Partner

Conversations about incorporating sex machines work best with openness about curiosity, concerns, and expectations.

Share what interests you about this form of stimulation. The consistent intensity? The novelty? The potential for partner control? The freeing of hands for other attention? Understanding motivations helps shape how you explore together.

Discuss any concerns honestly. Some people worry about being "replaced" by machines; others have practical concerns about size, storage, or noise. Addressing these concerns directly supports comfortable exploration.

Talk about how you'd like to incorporate machine use. Solo play while partner watches? Partner controlling the machine? Machine as part of larger scenes? Clarifying expectations prevents awkwardness.

Establish communication protocols for during use—how the receiver will indicate "more," "less," "stop," or "perfect." Machine noise can make verbal communication harder, so visual or physical signals may help.