Chosen clothing for
Having ones clothing selected by another. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you wear clothing chosen for you; "Giving" means you choose clothing for your partner.
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Start Your ChecklistClothing Control in Power Exchange
Having a Dominant choose clothing for their submissive extends power exchange into everyday presentation. This practice creates constant awareness of the dynamic, with each garment serving as a reminder of the connection between partners even when apart.
Implementing Clothing Control
Clothing control ranges from subtle to comprehensive. Some Dominants select specific items—requiring certain underwear or accessories—while others control entire wardrobes. Establish clear protocols: Does the submissive present options for approval? Does the Dominant lay out clothes? Are there different rules for work versus personal time? Define the scope that works for your dynamic.
Balancing Control with Practicality
Effective clothing control respects professional requirements and social contexts. Many partners create different protocols for work, casual, and private settings. The Dominant might choose from pre-approved work-appropriate options while having full control over weekend attire. Weather and activity considerations ensure the submissive remains comfortable and appropriately dressed.
Psychological Impact
Wearing Dominant-chosen clothing creates ongoing submission throughout the day. Each time the submissive notices their attire, they're reminded of their partner's authority. This continuous connection can be deeply satisfying for both partners—the submissive feels owned and considered, while the Dominant enjoys extended influence over their partner's presentation.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if the submissive has strong style preferences?
Discuss preferences when establishing this dynamic. Good Dominants consider their submissive's comfort and self-expression while exercising control. Collaboration creates sustainable practice.
How do we handle long-distance situations?
Digital control works well—submissives photograph options, Dominants choose via text or video call. Some send detailed instructions for the week ahead.
Should this include underwear and intimate items?
If desired by both partners. Choosing intimate garments often feels particularly meaningful as a private expression of control others don't see.
What about budget constraints?
Work within existing wardrobes or establish clothing budgets together. Control doesn't require expensive purchases—it's about who makes decisions, not spending.
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