Chastity Devices
Devices designed to prevent sexual activity by restricting access to the genitals. Short Explanation: "Receiving" means you are locked in chastity, while "Giving" means you apply the device to your partner.
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Start Your ChecklistChastity devices represent a unique intersection of trust, power exchange, and consensual control within BDSM relationships. Whether you're curious about exploring orgasm control, interested in enhancing intimacy through denial, or seeking to deepen power dynamics with your partner, understanding chastity play requires thoughtful consideration of both the physical and psychological aspects involved.
A chastity device is a physical barrier worn on the genitals that prevents sexual activity, typically masturbation and penetrative sex, while allowing normal bodily functions. These devices come in various materials, designs, and security levels, ranging from simple symbolic barriers to sophisticated locking mechanisms.
In this comprehensive guide, you'll learn how chastity devices work, the different types available, essential safety considerations for both physical and emotional wellbeing, practical advice for beginners, and how to have productive conversations with your partner about incorporating chastity play into your relationship.
How Chastity Devices Work
Chastity devices function by creating a physical barrier that prevents direct genital stimulation and sexual activity.
Techniques and Variations
Short-term chastity, long-term chastity, tease and denial, and orgasm control are common approaches.
Equipment and Tools
Materials include silicone, stainless steel, polycarbonate plastic, and leather. Proper sizing is critical.
Safety Considerations
Physical Safety
Circulation, skin integrity, hygiene protocols, and emergency removal capability are essential.
Emotional Safety
Psychological impact monitoring, ongoing consent, and proper aftercare are critical.
Red Flags
Stop immediately for severe pain, discoloration, numbness, infection signs, or emotional distress.
Beginner's Guide
Start with short sessions, invest in quality equipment, develop hygiene routines, and create clear agreements.
Discussing with Your Partner
Frame the discussion around mutual benefits, use resources to facilitate conversation, and establish safewords.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long can someone safely wear a chastity device?
This varies based on device quality, fit, and experience. Start with a few hours and gradually increase.
Will chastity devices affect sexual function or health?
When used properly, chastity play should not cause permanent effects. Always prioritize proper sizing and monitoring.
How do I determine the correct size?
Follow manufacturer measuring guides carefully. Consider purchasing sizing ring sets first.
What if I need to remove the device in an emergency?
Always have bolt cutters or heavy-duty scissors accessible. Practice emergency removal procedures.
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